hi ss i was thinking the same thing as need grace, who cares if h or anyone else are uncomfortable - the only ones to consider are you and his d.
are you close with her? can you not just call her yourself and say, your dad invited me and i'd much rather know what you think about it.
it's like s's b'day party this weekend. there are a myriad of ways that i can approach it - when i was keeping it all heavy and negative, then it became that in my mind but when i switched to the positive perspective, i'm really enjoying it.
it's all in the perspective. you could assume the good here, and just see it as h inviting you and take that at face value, and go enjoy yourself and i think if you make yourself truly comfortable about being there, the others will respond to that and become comfortable too
besides - you have some time - so let it be for a bit and then you will see where you are at with it in a week or so
take care zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
