i read an article a few years ago about making decisions. it said to consider how you would feel about your choice in 10 days from now, 10 months from now and even 10 years from now...
that helps me sometimes...
if it comes up again, does it make sense to ask H if he knows how his D feels about it, to let him know that you value her wishes for her day?
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
