Needing some guidance... 4

[gr8 day 2B alive]

25,
I don't want to see JKS bite at the first attempt from her H, especially if he is just using words.

eg. H says "I think we should go out sometime"
If he says this and he's still with OW then its not the right time for JKS to agree.

Using the phrase " I don't know how I feel about that"
has a tremendous affect on the WAS.

Sorry if these words bother you.

There are too many cases where the LBS take back the WAS too quickly.
The LBS want the M back more than anything and are blinded by it. They need to truly know the WAS is committed to the R.

I stand by the soft rejection b/c I experienced it.
If you would like to call it "Make the WAS work for it" that's OK.