good signs, bad signs, or nothing at all

[confusedfather]

Well I went against everyone's advice and had the conversation anyway. She said she has let go. But she has also noticed the changes I have made, without me bringing it up. The result was expected so i am not too upset. She also told me she found a place and will begin moving stuff out. Not too unexpected there either. I know I have done everything i could for us and can now detach and focus on myself and the kids. I am scared and excited at the idea of going out and GAL. Tomorrow I will get a membership to a local gym. Not sure what to do after that. We agreed that we will begin talking about the things and finances to divide in the next couple of days. I could use some advice on establishing boundaries and maybe some insight into what to expect emotionally after she moves out and the reactions I could expect from my children. Really nervous about that.