Should I just get her a card, like one from just a friend?
I will say the general answer to this is no, although it would depend on your sitch. Are you LRT? If so, then no card. If you are not LRT, then decide if getting a card / acknowledging your W's b-day / ie. pursuing her... would be "more of the same" or a 180?
It might be a good 180 if your past behaviour was distance / detach and your are not LRT.
