No worries, it is a pleasure and I hope I can help.
It is really easy to react to every little individual thing and trying to guess and second guess what he's thinking and feeling. It is an exhausting and impossible task.
What we need to get going here is you being proactive instead of reacting and what I mean by this is getting your confidence back and being attractive again. So I am going to push you a little harder, because I know you can take it.
Think about these points from above
- What was it when you first got together and were in that honeymoon period that was so attractive to your husband?
- What negative feelings do you think your h is feeling towards you? What can you do to reduce these negative feelings?
For example: when we first got together I was happy, confident etc. Insert your own descriptions here.
My h feels like I am too emotional, or I leave my socks on the bathroom floor. Insert your own decriptions.
For some reason I am still up at 2.30 in the morning here so I shall say good night but will check in soon.
