Perringo I'm kinda Latino so I will say this. She wants a very strong man. Someone who kind of doesn't care what she says when angry. A man who doesn't go over the other side but ready to do it. Like a tango dance. You must drop the gun and stop fighting. You must feel and look confident and act as if u will be ok if she walked out on you. I know you worked long hours but did u bitch about it? If u did don't. Show that ur ok with busting ur ass. Is she educated and independent? Do u visit her family when asked and are u helpful to them? Don't worry about her angry outburst. Whether it is normal is doesn't matter. You do what's right for the kids period.
Hate to sound sterotypical but if u are Caucasian she already thinks you are not as strong and macho. Didnt say to get a mustache like Geraldo. But u gotta stop being a victim and show pure strength. I think it's time for u to party. I don't mean to hook up and have sex. But it's time to salsa and meet others. Me entiendes?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
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