TM, You have to look out for yourself first. You need to be asking your lawyer why he/she is drafting up the information. If your wife filed, then maybe her lawyer should be doing the work. However, we all know why your lawyer is doing it...now, don't we? It's called paying it out of your pocket, not hers. You know, she's smart and she knows exactly what she's doing when it comes to finances.
You need to sit down and weigh the pros and cons of your financial situation and determine what is best for your and your little one.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
