W has contacted me 3 times today. One call when she arrived in Utah for funeral to ask how D was this morning. I told her fine and could sense the sadness. (She could have just texted or called D herself. Weird that she called me). I just told her "Sweetie, take care". It was just out of habit & concern. First text was to let me know where to look up obituary online. I told her thanks & that I had had already been trying to look it up. Second text was her telling me that her grandmother loved a cd that I made for her & that she says thanks. I just responded with that I was glad she liked it. A lot of contact from her today about just little stuff. Maybe she is missing my support and dependability? She didn't have to contact me with any of this info. Yet she did. She's thinking about me and it feels good. Baby steps.