It's fine to be cautious, she's be nuts not to be. But she herself is trying to show change in how SHE acts with him.
How does pushing him away get him closer?
Maybe it's semantics? Maybe we mean the same thing, but the word "test" and "rejection" bother me.
I think it's awfully easy to slide into being punitive when we "test" our spouses.
Food for thought.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
