New Thread. Oh well- I've been previously posting in Newcomers, but I'm looking for Hope and Inspiration now that my D is final in two weeks. I was married for 17 yrs and rec'd an email in November(while deployed for a year to Afghanistan with the Guard/reserves) telling me that she wants a D. Home since the end of Dec, I'm in the house with both Boys,see each other everyday, amicable,she says that she loves me but she has no desire to reconcile now- she hopes to, but the desire to come home isn't there. She also said that she can't come back until she knows my 180s are permannt & has no idea how long that may take...maybe never?! So...the in the last 12 months I have been deployed, had a 6 figure pay cut w/ my civilian job, Divorce & my Mom passed away last month... & I'm proud that I'm STILL keeping it together, a great DAD and I know that I could make my walk away spouse / xw happy if given the chance. Just looking for hope , advice ....Thx
