for someone who said she wasn't trying to take me to the cleaners, she took pretty much everything.
As self protection, should things not work out and D and custody battle happens, I suggest taking pictures of each room before you get new stuff (and have the camera date-stamp the pics) to show that she was "well provided for" when she moved out. Then print them and store somewhere safe and also upload to a safe place somewhere (like a gmail account that is just yours and you KNOW she doesn't have password). Make this sort of mindset your SOP right now...just in case...you can't trust her right now. Check the divorce laws in your state, some states are fairly balanced and fair, others, not so much...Protect yourself and your kids.
T^2
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