YOU TWO DECIDE. Mentee should determine their path, Mentor helps and provides advice. (Each DBer does their own work, right. Those that are here to help provide support, or knowledge of how something has or has not worked for THEM. That's it.)
You can go through steps or just work on what you want to. Let the Mentee decide with your guidance
DR Seven Steps:
1. Start with a Beginner's Mind 2. Know what you Want 3. Ask for what you want 5. Stop Going Down Cheeseless Tunnels (great for you two to work on together) 5. Experiment and Monitor Results (great to work on brainstorming together) 7. Take Stock (evaluate where you are) 8. Keep Positive Changes Going (detect the pieces that ARE working , and keep doing them, don't backslide. )
KLA Keeping Love Alive
1. Create your Goals 2. Take inventory of your skills and strengths 3. Identify what is currently going well 4. Identify what isn't working 5. Explore one or more of 7 creative approaches for overcoming relationship challengest
Change anything Do a 180 (LRT is part of this) Act as If Actions Speak Louder than words Power Packaging The Medium is the Message Do Nothing
6. Keep the Changes Going --- Identify what is going well, anticipate times you may slip up and pre-plan to keep doing well
7. Don't expect too much, too soon 8. Don't expect perfection 9. Don't expect failure 10. Make being solution oriented a way of life
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
