She was getting upset about how I was still trying so hard to keep us together, how I won't see or give her what she needs, but she declined to say what it was.
She doesn't know yet what it is probably, only that she doesn't feel like she is getting it.
You came to your answers by a process and I might add with a lot of support form people here who have been on this road and know the pitfalls.
She is on her own. It might be a bit presumptuous to assume she is in the same place you are by the passage of time. Your time by the way. Your timeline.
Not hers.
Your agenda.
Originally Posted By: Tenbus
We haven't been communicating about the relationship, only the day-to-day stuff. I brought that up, and asked her how she expected to reconnect emotionally if we weren't communicating. This did somewhat end the conversation
What did you expect?
You inserting what YOU want again?
Your W is going to get there or she won't. But I can tell you it won't be on YOUR timeline.
You can't speed it along Ten but you can hold it up by inserting your own agenda and timeline.
She still feels pressure and that you are pushing for what you want.
How can you SHOW her that you are different?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
