Also, the nervousness is also extending to my wife. Her almost complete withdrawal and reinvention has been so quick that I'm worried that there is no hope. If she has decided as she says that things are too far gone and there are too many issues which are impossible for me to demonstrate aren't issues, such as problems between me and her family which I think is easily solvable but she is clinging onto, how do I show her i can address her concerns when she only has superficial contact with me?
Damn, I did it again! Space, time and healing first, worry about these things later. Would still love to hear tips as to how to get through the running out of steam part.
