So I seem to be reaching a new phase in the process whereby I'm determined to improve myself but am now really nervous about the future. I saw a post from chatterbug which said most lbs lose 30 lbs, buy new clothes and that's it. I'm determined for that not to be the end of my growth in this crisis! The problem is I seem to be running out of steam as the process and the mental fatigue continue. Any tips how to get past this stage?
Also, the nervousness is also extending to my wife. Her almost complete withdrawal and reinvention has been so quick that I'm worried that there is no hope. If she has decided as she says that things are too far gone and there are too many issues which are impossible for me to demonstrate aren't issues, such as problems between me and her family which I think is easily solvable but she is clinging onto, how do I show her i can address her concerns when she only has superficial contact with me?
