Thanks for the encouragement. This is the hardest thing I've ever done. I am a fix it personality. Patience is not my virtue. Not contacting him is hard. Before the OW we were in contact all day. I had started a FT job over a year ago and went from ft mom/pt employee to the opposite. I was very depressed. He took over my role and I hated being on the sidelines. I see my faults. Instead of falling deeper into my depression with this happening I went to work. I started therapy right away, changed my work schedule, became more of the mom that I wanted to be. I came up with a plan for our finances. He didn't want to hear/see any of it. I just can't get over that we haven't talked since 5/1 and he hasn't tried to contact me once other than about seeing the kids. Am I doing this LRT right ?


Me 40/H 42
M 15/T 18
D 12/D 8
11/11 R Changed
1/31/12 H Admits A
5/1/12 H Leaves
6/6/12 H Files D