Don't have the conversation at all. She knows where you are and what you want. There is no need to tell her again.

As you said, you are in LRT.

It's way too soon for her to believe your changes are real. Keep working on those.

This is not a short hop, this is a long haul. Patience is key. Detaching is key.

It sounds like you have some good goals, how are you doing on those?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss