You have to be careful about setting precedence at this time. You are already struggling with finances. This will add to the burden. And if you can pay for it now. You will have to pay for it down the road if things continue down this path. Life will become very difficult.
So either you are doing one of those. Let her feel the full wrath of responsibility ( children, bills , taking care of home, work ... etc ) while you step out for a few weeks breather
Or you are setting yourself up to support her habit , her lifestyle , while at the same time removing yourself to become a part-time dad. Or worse.
Think about it.
You may change your mind on normalcy.
As you may get caught in a catch-22
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