She is still angry. I am still blamed for the negatives in her life. Some of the logic is rather convoluted. She needs to grow and I need to stay out of the way for her to do so. She needs to face herself and realize she is causing her own angst, her own drama. In this case that means not stepping in and attempting rescue. To do so could be seen as taking ownership of her current issue with the timing of the distribution payment. This is not mine to fix, it never was. Frankly her reliance upon having the distribution in hand in time to meet her obligations is her poor decision making nothing more.
Thanks for this JS - I know it wasn't meant for me or even the LBS but it did put a big mirror in front of my face.
I have been stuck in the blame game recently.
Thanks for helping me see it.
M(f): 43 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
