Married 15 yrs, 5 kids (one mine before marriage). W got tired of dealing with my insecurity/jealousy, combined with my continued unhappiness. Multiple EAs on her side, one ongoing. Bomb dropped Feb 15 2011, and repeated multiple times since then, but no action yet. Currently in retrovaille...W has agreed to finish program, but isn't really buying in.
2) what you think you need most help with (staying on track, brainstorming solutions, setting goals, etc)
I've read so many books and coupled with the retrov, I am confused most days how I should be behaving. Do I need to detach, or talk about my feelings? Should I be excluding her or including her. How should I react to continued negative behavior?
Last edited by Cadet; 05/25/1711:34 AM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
