My W has asked me to be "flexible" with the kids, too. And then she gets her dad to watch them. Or the neighbor... And it seems that when she's out of options, she comes to me...
And I think... I'm their dad... they're my kids... send them to me when you need to... I would LOVE to have them, I don't care the reason...
I thought about reasons, like you have...
I decided that the reason doesn't matter, for me...
