W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P3

[chatterbug]

Snowman. This is a very good time to learn about things that bother you.

Are they an issue that needs to be addressed via boundaries.
Are they an issue that you need to address by behavioral changes or changes in expectation.
Are they a non-issue and need to be dropped.

They only remain a problem for as long as you let them.

Its an interesting time when you get to this point. I think you grow up and become a man. You learn your core values. You learn your boundaries. You gain confidence in yourself to remain true to your core boundaries and values.

You grow. And usually it takes a crisis to learn this.

Many BS's lose 30 pounds wear some nice cloths and then call it in after that.

You can see it in their posts. It is just a circle week in and week out.

I personally stop posting to those people as I have nothing to offer them.

I do not see that in you. I see that you will grow and become a better person. But I also see you being impatient and getting frustrated.

It is what you do with that frustration that will define you in the years to come.