I have read your thread. I know it sounds like you and W have a lot to work on however I am so happy for you and your family! I am actually a bit jealous. I truly hope you and your W do everything possible to make it the best Marriage ever. It’s also really nice to see that you received some great support and excellent advise from this site. Some of the people on this site are truly amazing. I know there’s the DB suggestions however every sitch is different. . Maybe I missed it but coming from a newcomer, what were some of the most pivotal things you did that helped kick start the reconciliation process?


Me(M):37
W:42
T: 14
M: 11
S: 8
D: 4
W wanted separation 5/5
Stopped living together 5/5
Currently in DB stage

“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”.
Thomas Jefferson