It's all about building equality. You cannot heal your marriage if either of you come back in with a 90% - 10% ratio in equality.

I can see 60 - 40 as there will be some extra effort by your wife to rebuild trust. Which IMHO is just you two learning the new dynamics of understanding and respecting each others boundaries.


Good luck and swing by the bookstore for some books on you just brokeup and look for some activities you can write out.

Since you are at this location at this time. It is best to look around with open eyes.

A priori. Ars longa, vita brevis.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!