Re: Recently Seperated Part 11

[MrBond]

I'm not necessarily a big fan of snooping. I believe initially it's good to gather your information to see what you're up against. For example, if the WAS is having sex with the OP, you should know ahead of time so you can protect yourself physically. Plus if you find out that your WAS bought the OP a car, you know you better start closing off your financial assets to them because in the end you'll lose out.

However, when you start snooping just to see the daily dirt and it gets obsessive, that's when all snooping does is to erode your self-esteem.