I was checked out and moving on and away from my W.
I've been around long enough to see a few cases where this is exactly what it takes to turn things. I have days where I think I'm there and others maybe not so much. It's been a long time since I've thought of what reconciliation may look like though. Unless she is willing to make some changes and convinces me she really wants to come back, I can't even think of what that would look like. I have to just live my life and make my life great. I'm really happy with the direction my life is heading in. TBH, there are many days where I feel better than I did before the bomb and shortly after the bomb.
Originally Posted By: NTX_Dad
Do you see a C?
No, I don't. I not closed to it or anything. I know there is one that I can call that I trust. However, with my GAL'ing, DB coaching, and support network, I haven't felt the need. Like I mentioned, I'm feeling pretty good about where my life's heading. My biggest concern right now is my S. My second concern is my W. I know there's not anything I can do about where my W's life is headed, but I am very concerned about where she is heading.
