I know there will still be some bad days for you ahead. But, if you continue with the mindset you have now they will become fewer and fewer.
There isnt anything you can do about the situation. Nothing.
So, it isnt productive to continue to wallow in it, right?
You have been given the opportunity to become closer to your children. Your sons are watching you. You get to show them how to navigate through life's problems.
What wonderful gifts those are.
Be the man you want them to see, Tad.
Let her blow in the wind. Her life, her problems.
You live yours. Make it a good one for you and your sons.