What about the rings? Does she wear them now? Honestly, what is to be gained by asking her about the rings?

Does asking her about the rings now show her you are focusing on the future?

as for the OM. Have you talked about it at all? In my case, my W had a 3-4 EA. I have not brought it up to her in over a year. it really does no good...unless you think there is something going on now.

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.