Brit (and zig and ss) - I talked to Cheryl about this issue a little bit on my last call. Basically - it's normal and expected once we've achieved some growth in ourselves. I think it's more of a sign that we're looking at the R clearly and at our needs (as zig mentioned). It also means we wouldn't just agree to quickly jump back into an R without making sure it's healthier on both sides. There's no harm in pausing and saying - what do I need, and can I get it here? Because again DB'ing helps us figure ourselves out to become better partners in an R and better at recognizing what we need in an R. So - yeah, it's a little scary but I think it's a sign of getting your head above the clouds and seeing what's there and how you might or might not be able to work things out in the future.

It sounds like you're in a good place and you continue to get stronger and stronger and I like reading it because it inspires me to think about things more, too smile And you mentioning your cooking is making me hungry!!