Mab1, you know how you find her more attractive the more independent she gets? THE SAME THING WILL HAPPEN TO HER! That's a key observation. That's why you need to GAL, act as if, and cease all pursuit. You don't need to respond to her e-mail at all.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015