I think of Zig and KD as friends! and my thread like my kitchen...have a seat, I'll make tea or coffee and we can chat! LOL
I agree with all of you. I actually took a sociology class at university and the prof used to be a MC and he said that when people are arguing over something like silverware there's still something there. If you're angry there's something there! If you're jealous there's something there. If you feel nothing...then there's nothing. I do believe that. But H can be SO detached it gets annoying. That's his personality to hold things in side. So he's a funny fish to read.
Had a convo with a friends last night. Who wants me to meet someone new. Usually when I tell her any drips or draps of what he does she'll say he could just be being a friend. But when I told her how he acted on hangover day saying how good I looked sending back specaility food for the next day, offering to get me a drink, saying he wanted to take care of me, and how he was texting me ON his weekend away to say he hoped I had a good time she was like What is he doing? This isn't fair to you! It made me smile because it isn't in my head. He is confused despite what he may say.
Because of time difference you guys may have misunderstood me...he's coming by Wednesday night/afternoon now.
SS, the food thing is gold. Because when he's around I try to make food that GF wouldn't know how to do. Food from home, ethnic food, non-vegetarian food, etc.
TBH the idea of him saying okay I want to work on things scares me. Is that weird? I don't know where we'd start...so that's why this "just enjoying him" is a good place. I am thinking of him as another option in my ever increasing big world. and we'll see.
