It is weird to consider that vets are people too...! I think we do think you all have it figured out aways! And we do forget that you have your own sitchs to deal with too. That just makes the time and advice you give to us even more heartfelt and appreciated.
KD I am no way near as brave as zig ( hopefully soon i will be!) to offer advice but I do offer my support.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home