My ex tells me to get on with my life-- So,recently, I've gone out with an attractive successful woman a few times...kind of dating-
So you decided to do this because your w suggested it?
What is it that you want to do?
I would suggest that you are not ready yet to date while you still have feelings and hope for your w.
Regardless of that though it seems like you are still making your own personal decisions based on how it will affect your chances of reconciling or what your w will think.
Its time for you to make your decisions based on what you feel is best for you. Regardless of what your w may percieve it as.
