Why did you allow this? Why did you feel OK with your MIL coming into your home and making you feel inadequate?

I don't know... I spoke with W about it on a few occasions... it was a battle that I wasn't going to win, so I didn't fight it... non confrontational by nature... I will talk to therapist about it...

M:40 W:31
S:8 S:5 D:8(prev. relationship)
Bomb dropped: 5/10/12 It's not you it's me
MO: 6/1/12
T:14
M:9