S has asked me a couple of times to come visit him at W's new place. The first time it was at one of our hand off's and W rolled her eyes at me when he asked and quickly said "Not today." I was relieved that she answered him. But he asked me to come over a second time when we were on the phone. It was bedtime so I had a good enough answer.
I don't even know the address. I believe W wants it this way. I'm fine with letting her have her space.
My question is how should I respond to him when he asks and there is no reason other than "Mommy doesn't want me to." I don't make her look bad, but I don't want to be the bad guy either.
