I'm married 15 yrs, 2 kids 8+12. Husband was great and great father. In Nov 2011 noticed changes. Asked if there was someone else and he said no. Jan 31, 2012 he finally admitted it. Lied about who she was, kept his wedding ring on, didn't move out. We grew further apart. I was begging, crying. Got the DR and stopped that. Started working on myself. He stayed locked in another room when/if he was home. I found out OW was one of the kid's teachers. Fights got worse. On 5/31 he was forced out by law. I have not spoken to him since. He now texts me to see kids b/c we have contact again. I reply nicely. When he picks them up I make sure I look good and act nice. I guess I'm implementing the LR. I had to file for support since he hasn't given us any $. It's been this way for 3 weeks. He filed for D 1 and 1/2 weeks ago. I haven't seen him give an inch. What do I do now ? Problems all stem from bad finances. He says I'm lazy b/c I make being a mom my priority over being an employee. He said he doesn't love me and never will. He was stone cold to me while still in the house. He has a place now but not sure if OW is there fulltime. Help ??