I get this and support it. My only query or concern is when the LBSer does not know what they need.
I think I understand what you're saying, 25, but generally,
- most newbies know where they want to go, and know something of what they need and that's where to begin
- this is about 2 folks pairing up in a mentor/mentee relationship, not about someone being told what to do or what they need, it's about drawing it out of someone
- some folks really want to be told, and they will say so, and seek out that kind of advice
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001