I new to the board. I fond this after trying to find some answersd.It start in 1/12 when my whife found some emails to an ex. We had been having small problems for abot six months. Her insecurties about me cheating. Well I have been through all the dons't. We have been seperated about four months. I been doing the 180 abot three weeks. Everything is very quiet now. Little to no communication except a text here and there about wanting me to get the kids. She actually called me three weeks ago and wanted to talked about a divorce. I was doing good and all my emations took over. I'm better now bt the quiteness is killing me. Don't know what is going on. I know I must learn patience. Really hard when I have the kids, because I so use to use doing faily thins. I find my self not calling or spending time withe kids because it hurts so much. Any advice about the quiteness.
