Had a great visit with H's daughter.

Soon after she arrived she asked me about my new career plans. I was truly surprised that she knew about this, and when I asked her how she knew she said H told her. Apparently he just offered up the information, "as if nothing has happened". She told him that she already knew because she didn't want him thinking he had the information before she did.

So at the end of our visit she told me he's keeping the boat and asked if I knew this. I told her I didn't (not from him anyway), and that he and I hadn't talked about it. I guess he can unilaterally make this decision if he plans to take on the loan right away, but to assume I'll stay on as cosigner for an indeterminate length of time is a bit of a stretch, since it violates our separation agreement.

Why would H feel the need to pass my news on to his D, like it's his to share, like he's proud of me? Yet at the same time not say a word to me about the boat?


me 45
H 46
T 5
M 2.5
BD Sept 6 2011
OW Sept 8 2011
Threw him out Sept 8 2011