Thanks Snodderly, I agree with you there. My friends way of feeling important is to sometimes be a know it all. I am very fond of her but that's the deal. It's easy for others to give their opinion without having been through this. At the end of our conversation I told her I was going to continue to hang in there for awhile and left it at that. Not talking to my sisters about it any more. My counselor is the one who said I needed to talk to people but no one is for me staying with him so I'm not going to that counselor now, not just for that but I don't thinks she's very helpful.
My husband still wanted to talk to me last night outside with a glass of wine and that's when he told me his depression was black. I commisserated with him bc I have been there not just with this but other times im my life. I can have patience with him working things out for himself, but the rude disrespectful behavior and disregard I will not tolerate anymore. I'm done with that.
