Opt, No rushing to have THE conversation... was it Tal's H or Jeannine's that described (or Ellie's) what happened as a planecrash and "who wants to rehash that?"
Give him time... yes, I know you just gave him three weeks... so what's a few more days? Revel in knowing that he came home to you... be (guess what?) PATIENT!
How cool that he included you in his dinner!
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
Quote: Revel in knowing that he came home to you... be (guess what?) PATIENT!
Take it slowlee, slowlee, catchee, monkee! LOL
Because, hon, there are a few of us here that would give anything if our S's would just come home! And I think it says it all in him coming home, just on it's own. {{{HUGS}}}
Good point about the letter - great that you can see even the smallest positives.
So I am glad that he included you in his business dinner. Did he close his business and is looking to start a new venture? Wow. Big changes all around.
How is your D doing? I know that she was reacting to your H not being around. Does his presence reassure her so she is willing to go abouther daily activities?
The talk will come, a lot of adjustments will come. I am just glad that he came home to you and that we are all rejoicing his return.
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
