hey 2. Glad you had a good getaway. I'd agree with above. Don't put yourself in a situation where you are being dishonest with your boys. They already know that you live somewhere else. Why make excuses for why you are not going on a family trip?
Hope you can brush off the fact that she wants to go without you. Lift your head up and have a full schedule & life while she's gone. Let the boys know you'll miss them and to have fun. The more you make a deal of this the bigger it will get so let it go for your own sake and keep moving forward. She'll stil have to deal with all of it for herself and she needs to.
Hope classes are going good for you!
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms