Woah jb, I am sorry to hear that. That must have been incredibly difficult to experience on many levels. I feel terrible for your S, he must be very confused.

I wish I had good advice. I was checked out and moving on and away from my W. I had enough and didn't think things would ever change, but yet they did.

Do you see a C? Mine was a huge help throughout this journey.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012