Kimmerz, When the issues involve your daughers, email or text him the information. Keep your expectations at zero and do not offer up any additional information on anything else. If he doesn't respond, don't worry, he's reading each and every message that you send him. You've done what you are suppose to do and that is to keep him informed.
I know that this frustrates the hell out of you, but in order to cut this dance short...just text him once. If he responds w/questions, answer them and then let it go. Until he comes out of mlc and his selfish "me mode", this is the way that some of them act. I hate to say this, but you are the primary parent and you are basically going it alone. There's nothing you can do to make him be more supportive or more interested in his daughters.
Drop the expectations totally. When he senses that you are going on w/your life and are not expecting him to do stuff, he'll come around and that's when you are going to have to be civil and treat his just as you would the paper man.
Hang in there.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
