W has been out of the house for about a week with a couple of trips to the house to watch ballgames, since her cable has not been hooked up. Saturday, I am clearing out a rent house where a piece of her furniture is stored so I drop it off at her apartment. She is physically sick, with nothing to do, no tv, no internet, etc. She asks if she can come over and spend the night and I say OK. She spent Sat evening and all day Sunday at the house.
I had put my ring back on and never said a word. She noticed and asked why? I said "just did, does it offend you?" She said no and held my hand and asked "does this offend you?" Most of the weekend she spent sitting next to me, laying next to me, holding hands, etc. until Sunday night when she was going home. She started to make some comments about the last day or two and they sounded like they were negative. She said something about not wanting to lead me on. I told her we should not discuss this right now, we should enjoy that we had a good weekend and not try to analyze everything. She agreed.
I realize this activity could mean she is unsure of herself and wanting to come back. It could also mean she was bored and needed something to do, nothing more than that. I have reread Divorce Principles and am trying to assign NO meaning to anything that happened.
Just going to continue working on myself and not pursue.
