swimming with turtles and some guidance

[zig]

it was definitely a much needed boost of confidence - but today after his offer to stop by so late in the evening i'm a little nervous -

i'm glad you wrote what you did. i needed a very good reminder that if he starts r talks (that's what i'm nervous about), i should just be flirty and blow it off a bit.

his pattern is definitely to "think out" the back and forthing with me - and that's what i sense he may do - except since the split, his version has been to back on forth with r talks.

just have to try and stay relaxed and open and not get pulled in.

problem is - it takes him a long while to keep talking before we get to the point where he makes a mistake -so if i blow it off too soon, i may lose an opportunity there for him to make another one.

well - i'm not going to over think it and not going to expect anything except that he would like to hang out with s before he goes to bed
how are you brit? well , i hope?

zig