Wow this is exactly what Cheryl wanted me to do...seduce H let him get confused and conflicted and just smile. I, didn't know if given the rejection when I "came back" that I could handle it if we had sex and then he continued on with her. I have to protect myself you know?

I do think that that the DB coach make you realise that we over think a lot and to just be you and be happy and be light hearted. I think Cheryl would say try not to have ANY R talks with him, stay flirty and fun and if he brings up R dismiss it with a joke and move on. But this is a crazy game to play and I didn't know if I had the balls to do it. HAHA

I do think you sound more confident so maybe you just needed to get your mojo back!