Originally Posted By: verab754
T I remember thinking that I'd be able to show him love and that would fix everything (co-D). Wrong.



Good morning vera,

This quote of yours spoke to me this morning and was exactly what I felt and I realized how it fits into co-D, we will do the work for the other person.. wow. Thank you for the insight.

I was on vacation last week and just got caught up on your thread this morning. It sounds like you are going through a transition (his absence due to work) and transitions bring up more feelings... but probably for him as well.

thank you for the insight.


Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13