Originally Posted By: Mab
All I am now is embarrassed, frustrated and angry and I don't see that as a good place to start anything from.


That is where we all started from and worse.

Her actions and words might be the cause.

The effect YOU control.

Will you let your anger turn into a sword or use is as a shield?

She is accountable for the actions and words that caused it but you are responsible for how it affects your own well being and happiness.

Giving her that power and deciding to be avictim of it is an excuse not to do better.

An excuse not to be responsible for yourself.

An excuse not to work on yourself.

So what things would you like to change about yourself?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am